{"id":821,"date":"2020-05-31T16:25:11","date_gmt":"2020-05-31T14:25:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/botaegruas.online\/?p=821"},"modified":"2020-05-31T16:35:00","modified_gmt":"2020-05-31T14:35:00","slug":"pyetje-dhe-pergjigje-ne-lidhje-me-dilemat-me-te-medha-te-heqjes-se-bebelines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/botaegruas.al\/blog\/pyetje-dhe-pergjigje-ne-lidhje-me-dilemat-me-te-medha-te-heqjes-se-bebelines\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje dhe p\u00ebrgjigje n\u00eb lidhje me dilemat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb heqjes s\u00eb bebelin\u00ebs"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Para se t\u00eb filloni procesin patjet\u00ebr shfletoni k\u00ebto pyetje. E mbani diku linkun t\u00eb regjistruar p\u00ebr ta rilexuar  dhe madje rekomandoni edhe miken tuaj t\u2019i hedh\u00eb nj\u00eb sy. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ndoshta do t\u2019ju falenderoj\u00eb!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fillojm\u00eb me pyetjen m\u00eb t\u00eb shpesht\u00eb! Si veprohet n\u00eb rastet kur f\u00ebmija nuk arrin t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur n\u00eb tualet?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast zgjidhja \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e thjesht\u00eb. Nuk ken ipse t\u00eb vraponi ju, as f\u00ebmija juaj. Vendoset uturaku sa m\u00eb af\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. N\u00ebse ai po luan n\u00eb salon uturaku ska p\u00ebrse t\u00eb ndodhet ne tualet, e madje as n\u00eb ballkon. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrsa f\u00ebmija fiton m\u00eb tep\u00ebr aft\u00ebsi ju largoni distanc\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A mundet t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb f\u00ebmija that\u00eb p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb nat\u00ebs?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me ngadal\u00eb. T’i marrim gj\u00ebrat shtruar. Edhe n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija arrin t\u00eb trajnohet si duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb kryej\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb nevojat e veta n\u00eb tualet gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs, nat\u00ebn ndryshon disi puna. Nevojitet gati deri nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb ai t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb that\u00eb gjat\u00eb nat\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00ebmija im n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2 vjecare refuzon t\u00eb kryej\u00eb nevojat n\u00eb tualet, si t\u00eb veproj?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ideja e heqjes s\u00eb bebelin\u00ebs nuk q\u00ebndron n\u00eb faktin e detyrimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb banjo. Por n\u00ebnkupton t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarin e vog\u00eblushit apo vog\u00eblushes kur ai apo ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb gati. N\u00ebse ju e forconi duke e qortuar apo b\u00ebrtitur nd\u00ebrsa ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gati nuk do t\u00eb arrini rezultatin e duhur. Shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn dy vjecare nuk jan\u00eb ende gati dhe duhet ta pranoni q\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekja mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija ka kryer disa her\u00eb nevojat n\u00eb uturak por tani qan dhe refuzon duhet t\u00eb mos e detyroni. E merrni me vete n\u00eb tualet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb natyrale dhe i tregoni se edhe ju kryeni atje urinimin. I tregoni se k\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb n\u00eb uturak dhe pasi e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb e shp\u00ebrbleni. Vendosni n\u00eb dukje sjelljen pozitive dhe mos qortoni at\u00eb negative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Midis v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb procesi ka duhet t\u00eb ndiqni\/respektoni ritmet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si ta ndihmoj f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim 2 vjec t\u00eb kryej\u00eb urinimin n\u00eb uturak para se ta b\u00ebj\u00eb n\u00eb bebelin\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2 vjecare me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi f\u00ebmija nuka do t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u2019ju informoj\u00eb se ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb banjo. Ju mund ta ndihmoni duke e ulur n\u00eb uturak n\u00eb nj\u00eb orar t\u00eb caktuar. Pra edhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast skema do t\u00eb ishte e vlefshme. Mund ta ulni c\u2019do dy or\u00eb p\u00ebr disa minuta n\u00eb uturak fill pas zgjimit t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit. Gjithnj\u00eb pasi ka kryer nevojat e shp\u00ebrbleni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si veprohet n\u00eb rastet kur f\u00ebmija nuk e kupton se ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb urinoj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast p\u00ebrfundon duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb tek mbathjet. Ju nuk duhet ta dramatizoni situat\u00ebn. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb normale q\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb mos ket\u00eb kontroll t\u00eb plot\u00eb n\u00eb fshik\u00ebz edhe pse ka disa muaj q\u00eb trajnohet dhe ka p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsime. Ju vazhdoni ta udh\u00ebzoni vazhdimisht ku duhet t\u00eb kryej\u00eb nevojat e veta pa i b\u00ebrtitur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si veprohet n\u00eb rastet kur f\u00ebmija refuzon t\u00eb ulet n\u00eb uturak?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ende gati. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast ju duhet t\u00eb qeshni, t\u00eb jeni pozitive, t\u2019ja p\u00ebrcillni f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tuaj pozotivitetin. N\u00ebse ai refuzon t\u00eb ulet n\u00eb uturak duke qeshur i propozoni t\u00eb ulet pasi do t\u00eb marr\u00eb shp\u00ebrblim. Se atje kryhen nevojat dhe se personazhi i tij I preferuar b\u00ebn t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. N\u00ebse n\u00eb at\u00eb moment refuzon mos insistoni. Provoni s\u00ebrish n\u00eb tjet\u00ebr koh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cfar\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija urinon\/defekon menj\u00ebher\u00eb pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb cuar nga uturaku?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00eb fazat e hershme t\u00eb trajnimit. Normalisht duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoheni me iden\u00eb se muskujve do t\u2019i duhet koh\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb si t\u00eb relaksohen dhe kontrollojn\u00eb fshik\u00ebz\u00ebn apo l\u00ebvizjet e zorr\u00ebve. N\u00ebse kjo gj\u00eb ndodh shpesh her\u00eb n\u00ebnkupton se f\u00ebmija nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ende gati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A mundet nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb 18-24 muajsh t\u00eb jet\u00eb gati p\u00ebr trajnim?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr dy arsye. E para sepse f\u00ebmija mund t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb ende gati, pra nuk ka fituar ende aft\u00ebsit\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb futet n\u00eb process. Dhe e dyta n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb f\u00ebmija ka filluar t\u00eb b\u00ebhet \u201cekspert\u201d n\u00eb t\u00eb ecur dhe do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta mbani ulur kur ju doni q\u00eb ai t\u00eb kryej\u00eb nevojat n\u00eb uturak. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb refuzimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar ulur do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i madh se tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00ebn 12 muajsh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Normalisht mund t\u00eb tentoni megjithat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kuptoni q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqeni n\u00ebse nuk v\u00ebreni rezultat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n